Hi Readers! How's it going? wish you're doing just fine.
I am writing this as a life matter that exposed some experiences or journeys which contributed to life.
In this world, we are connected to many aspects, most of them are our families, relatives, best friends, colleagues, working team, old-person, acquaintance, even strangers.
Let's recall, when did you make communication to every person mentioned above? Probably we could not remember all of which clearly, but at least there is something memorable either in a good or bad ways.
As the human being, we tend to bear in mind that we are curious person, wanting to know every single part of a thing, like people nowadays always call as "KEPO" which is abbreviation of Knowing Every Particular Object. It is true believed that we sometimes want to know something that is not really our areas. Even though, not all people have the same curiosity level, so that's why there are choices to choose. Whether to get involved in, or just to ignore it.
Considering the choices, there is a saying "Life is a choice". I absolutely believe this. Even, a very long time ago, before we were born, we were competing to be chosen, I hope you know what I referred to.
As the time goes on and we have gone through phases or stages such as from baby, kid, adolescence, teenager, and adult. Indeed, we have so many experience we have faced in regard to how to choose "a thing" better. One problem is that when the options are similarly the same but we must choose one which fits us well,
How did you choose it?
What consideration you took before choosing?
How well are you sure that this is a good one?
Don't you think about consequences both short or long time period?
Life is unique, we sometimes do not clearly think or question ourselves prior to decide a thing. It is because we, human beings, are given Heart and Brain. They do not cooperative in many ways as we want them to, and if things get rough, like when your heart says yes but your mind says no, it will be a problem which leads to affect your feelings, psychological, and even your body.
Here is a Scenario of how it goes.
You have known someone for years, you get along with him, like no boundaries. At the same time, you meet a stranger and you make a friend even a relationship and gradually spend limited time with the first person until you decided to separate. In a short time, you get along with the second person, you go through many places, share story each other, you become happy for long time. However, unexpected thing happens unexpectedly. You have problem with the new one, and think about the old one. You try to say "if only ....". You ended up deciding to separate. You become a loner, you try to make a contact with the old but sadly, he is not interested in you anymore. Couple time later, you are bored, you want to call the second one to start again, but he says no. You kind of regret what happened to you. The consequence is you do not get anything but a heartache, you absolutely regret and you want to go back so badly than anyone does.
It is one scenario about how wishy-washy the person is. If this thing happens to you, what will you probably do to diminish your feeling guilty?
Another scenario is, you work in a company where you initially do not like but you try your best to fit in. You get promoted in a high level but you think of your incapability which makes you refuse to have it. A friend of you says that why don't you take it? it is really good for you, don't focus about your incapability, you are chosen because you are believed. Thinking it too much made him confused and change his mind but the opportunity does not come twice, he's thinking.
A great lesson based on two scenarios above can be stated in this forms
"IF YOU ARE ABOUT TO QUIT, PLEASE THINK AGAIN WHY YOU STARTED"
"YOU MAY HAVE THE SECOND CHANCE, BUT IT WON'T BE THE SAME ANYMORE, SO TAKE IT AND MAXIMIZE IT" -SIDIQ, 2016
